Month: July 1998

  • children change into aliens as adults

    Just when I think I know my sons, they change. At 10, I signed up my second son for children’s choir. He responded as if I had told him to lay down on the rack in the torture chamber. He ran. He hid. He dragged his feet all the way to practice and forgot to…

  • Fighting fear with faith

    The phone rang, interrupting my afternoon nap. Yawning I went to the kitchen to answer it. “Hello, Hershberger’s residence,” I mumbled. No one responded. I cleared my throat, “Hello?” I heard a quit click. “Okay, good-bye,” I hung up. It was another anonymous silent phone call at 2:15 p.m. interrupting my afternoon siesta with my…

  • finger snapping authority

    I used to scare my daughter every time I snapped my fingers. With a tremor in her teenage voice she says, “when I was a little kid, I would jump out of my skin at the snap of death from my mom.” I wish I had that effect on my sons. With them, I not…

  • our other vehicle, the red wagon

    Shortly after I married into a family with two young sons, my husband bought a red, metal wagon with shiny black handle and white side-walled tired. On our shoestring budget, that wagon was our second vehicle. Even pulling the wagon, it was a short trip down a well-kept, sidewalk lined streets to the library, clinic,…