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  • Katie’s Playmate

    At family gatherings little kids’ eyes search for “someone just like me.” At three, Katie found Abby, two. The two inspected each other before returning to their mothers. At four, my grandson went up to a bit taller boy at a yard sale and said, “hi!” The oldest grandson immediately gravitated to his much younger…

  • nap time

    Around three in the afternoon, I woke up, yawned, opened the van door and wandered into the house. “Did you have a good nap?” my husband asked. “Why did you sleep out there?” “Sometimes I just need a quiet place to nap. I used to clock out at work, drive the car to a shady…

  • Do you have kids

    A post on Facebook said, “Tell us you have kids without saying ‘I have kids.’” My granddaughter, Lindsay, wrote, “My coffee is cold, and so is my food, I have little bruises from being jumped on. I have more stretch marks everywhere. I enjoy nap time, laundry never ends. Brushing my hair is as far…

  • an anniversary with covid

    Advice columnists, speakers and movies emphasize romantic anniversaries, birthdays or other special days for couples. They depict flowers, candy, a candlelight dinner in a fine restaurant, sweet nothings whispered or written. Every year my husband aims to have some activities on our anniversary. He fell flat on everything this year. In fact, he was laid…

  • Redemption

    Prior to my birthday, my son sent me the following comments: When I moved to Michigan, I thought I would only be involved with the redemptive work of preaching the good news of Jesus. I soon learned about other opportunities for redemptive work. In Michigan,  most soda and alcoholic beverage containers have a redemption value…

  • Gladys Aylward, the small woman

    A flash from my past came as I sorted through a stack of books which included one inscribed, “Property of the Jr. Missionary Band.” As a child I belonged to a Missionary Band. Our neighbor opened her home to weekly meetings of the Missionary Band. Bit by bit she read us “Gladys Aylward, the Small…

  • Covid sent us back to the past

        On the cusp of a new year, we look back on 2020 as the year we went Back to the Past.     It began with the grocery store ads, “Send us your grocery list and we will walk the aisles filling your order. All you have to do is park at the curb and…

  • what does Elizabeth have to do with Christmas

    The winners of the Christmas alphabet game called out their words for each letter. “E is for Elizabeth.” “Elizabeth! What does that have to do with Christmas?” Steve sputtered. “She was the wife of Zechariah. Gabriel the angel told him he would be the father of John. That promise came before Gabriel visited Mary,” I…

  • Growing up to help

    I blinked and did a double take last fall when I saw Elijah, then 13. In the few weeks since our previous visit, our chubby grandson had stretched up into a tall, thin teenager. I barely recognized him with his new haircut and body. “Wow! have you measured yourself lately? You have shot up!” I…

  • To Mask or Not to Mask

    This pandemic has my mind in a whirl. Before school started, my daughter posted pictures of her children wearing the newest addition to their wardrobe – face masks. “Wear a mask. Go to school. Study there.” Inconvenient. Yes. Mandatory, Yes. Well, except for Katie, who is only 4. She does not have to wear a…

  • New puppy fever

        A flood of Facebook pictures announced the newest pet in the family: a French beagle puppy. (Okay, it has a fancy name, but that will do for now.) Long soft ears, big paws and an eager spirit to explore the house and meet the family.     “Someone is about to get her dreams. That…

  • Going back home

    Our recent journey along the Interstate back to my husband’s home state refreshed our memory of cold and barren holiday months in the windy north. We traverse frigid states to re-kindle warm feelings among kin who live too far away for frequent visits. Unlike previous trips taken over this highway, this time we have long…

  • SCOTUS and the Girl Scouts

        Everything I need to know I learned in kindergarten – including the exclusivity of tight knit groups. In kindergarten I watched two or three girls become best friends to the exclusion of others whom they snubbed. As an adult, I have seen the same thing happen among family, friends and co-workers.     Within one…

  • Hoarding Cantaloipes

    Hoarding is fed by yard sales. I shop the sales searching for items for my hoard and often ask, as a I did at a recent sale, “Do you have any Christian literature?” “We have the Bible Dad had,” The Son said. He walked over to the book table and returned carrying a huge paperback…

  • Adult ADHD

        My friend’s husband Mr. B arrived late for his appointment to be assessed for Attention Deficit Disorder.  “He got lost – as  always. He turned the wrong direction and had to get more directions.”       The doctor shrugged, “We always schedule the ADD folks an hour before their appointment. We know they run late.”…